#2 is a lost cause, I'm afraid. On my last cruise on Formal Night there were probably 20%+ of the men showing up in ragged hoodies and ballcaps. Also seen in a significant number of wedding photos....
10:25am on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
I get that. My view is that I'm on vacation and I'm not dressing up for anything. But, that's why I have no interest in places that have a dress requirement.
10:45am on 3/25/26 by
cobia
Is it a "requirement" when it's not enforced? Or a social convention demonstrating respect? Or?
11:00am on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
I can honestly say it would take a lot for me to pay any mind to what other people are wearing while dining.
11:17am on 3/25/26 by
utang44
I have been at signature restaurants and sat near guests commenting on others dress but I agree with @utang.
I also absolutely love HEA.
11:55am on 3/25/26 by
PrincipalTinker
@ali, were 100% of the women dressed in formals?
12:09pm on 3/25/26 by
popupcamper
@ali, if you looked at my DS's and DIL's wedding photos you would see a variety of formal and casual clothing. They were married on a farm and specifically said to wear "whatever makes you comfortable to have the best time".
12:18pm on 3/25/26 by
PrincipalTinker
Somehow I see an attitudinal difference between formal and dressy casual vacationwear and ragged hoodies and ballcaps, but that's just me. To each their own. I really don't care what other people do on vacation which doesn't impact me directly.
12:29pm on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
I honestly think that many people don't even look at the booking page that tells them there is a suggested dress code. Just like there are guests in MK looking for Harry Potter.
12:47pm on 3/25/26 by
PrincipalTinker
@popup Perhaps, I don't recall seeing any females at that time (formal night) dressed sloppily or wearing something that would be more appropriate for doing yard work. But I do manual labor every day in a barn, so that's my perspective.
12:51pm on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
I've only done three cruises but have never noticed men particularly more "sloppy" than women.
1:31pm on 3/25/26 by
popupcamper
*shrug* just my observation this last cruise (Feb '26) mostly while waiting in the crowd to enter the dining room when I had nothing else to do but people-watch.
2:05pm on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
ChatGPT, concerning weddings, I suspect numbers are similar at other occasions:
Casual at own wedding
Men (grooms) ~20-35%
Women (brides) ~5-10%
2:29pm on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
There is zero percent chance 35% of men wear ragged hoodies and baseball caps to their own weddings.
2:41pm on 3/25/26 by
popupcamper
I like (not love) HEA. I kind of wish they would do an update or something too. But I am afraid they would add a bunch of the newer movie themes and I am not as familiar with those so I am content with it as is.
3:29pm on 3/25/26 by
h2olly
@popup Of course, but that's not what I said.
3:37pm on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
But it is. You said you've seen a significant number of ragged hoodies and ballcaps in wedding photos on men, and then said Chat GPT backs you up, and they were dressed for yard work.
3:47pm on 3/25/26 by
popupcamper
@popup That's a real interesting way to look at it. Not what I said, but if that's your truth, go on then.
4:13pm on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
4:25pm on 3/25/26 by
popupcamper
Thanks for the thoughts, we try and not let things bug us, and the dress thing is on Disney for enforcement.
It was a date night at resort signature, several around us came in looking like they came straight from the pool. Understand opinions vary.
4:31pm on 3/25/26 by
Beautiesandtheb
Ali is dead on about the way people dress for Formal Night on cruises. I see the mismatched wedding couples all the time in Las Vegas. Women in gowns, guys in jeans. When I am at the high end resort, both people dazzle
4:50pm on 3/25/26 by
Elaine5715
But I guess if you are spending 100K on a wedding at the Bellagio, you put on your fancy duds.
4:51pm on 3/25/26 by
Elaine5715
Tell us more about how the rich people live @elaine!
5:42pm on 3/25/26 by
Ali Ababwa
I mean..they did change hea for a few years and then it went back to much fanfare. So 1 has already happened and people didn't care for the other one.
6:03pm on 3/25/26 by
melodicwords
@Beauties while I don't pay attention to what others wear, I've booked 2 signature ADR just so my DD18 can dress up! She misses the dances from highschool where she got to wear fun dresses, so I told her we have 2 dress up nights on our next trip...
6:38pm on 3/25/26 by
maurine08
Of course she won't be wearing formal gowns, but she can wear a nice Lilly Pulitzer and I found 2 inexpensive but gorgeous dresses on Amazon I'm so excited to wear! I do think dressing for signature makes the trip more fun and special.
6:39pm on 3/25/26 by
maurine08
Oh, @maurine. My girls love dressing up, too! Unfortunately it means checked bags on planes (not carryons) and minimim of 5 pairs of shoes, "just in case."
8:11pm on 3/25/26 by
Jennyhirsch
@jenny I drive so we pack SO MUCH stuff!!! 2 outfits per day, and probably 10 pairs of shoes to share since we are same shoe size. Honestly the park-fits and dressier outfits for dinners make the trip extra special.
8:46pm on 3/25/26 by
maurine08
@Ali, when I am in Las Vegas, I really would like to ask the folks carrying bags out of those $10,000 purse stores what did they buy.
10:41pm on 3/25/26 by
Elaine5715
@Elaine maybe they are colleagues of CM Nicole
1:31am by
Delayfish
@Delay, those colleagues are fairly easy to spot. My brother on his first trip, "locals are so friendly, I was sitting at the bar, having a beer and women keep sitting next to me, asking if I wanted to hang out with them"
12:46pm by
Elaine5715
Will your brother buy me a drink?
12:47pm by
Ali Ababwa